So you have stumbled upon my website. Welcome and feel free to look around =D.
Juz bear in mind that this humble blog DOES not reflect the real me.
Read if you like, scram if you dun.
An ambitious moron married to a sensible man.
A choleric Plegmatic who lurves company and alwiz trying the best she can eva be..
Lurves non sensible shoes and begs..
On her way to financial freedom..juz give me three yrs, baby..
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* Metal Lia 30th Jan
* Lynn's 6th Feb
* Belon 25th Mar
* Ariannur 27th Mar
* Lady 30th Mar
* Uztaz 7th Apr
* NOra Alwi 12th Apr
* Aqil Syahmi & Eddie 15th Apr
* Darling 29th Apr
* Fiza IBO 14th May
* Bro 22nd May
* Hammer Din 24th May
* FPDD Azman 26th May
* Mak/Yana 1st Jun
* Andrian's 19th Jun
* My twin, Wo & Wati IBO 21st jun
* Weewit 8th Jul
* Ma & Paps Anvsry 31st Jul
*Bik Yah 13th Aug
* Marisa 31st Aug
* Sulina/Papa's 27th Sep
* Ma 11th Oct
* Amirul Shafiq 12th Oct
* Nurul 17th Nov
* Marina 22nd Nov
* Our anniversary 28th Dec
We went to Manila, Phils for a biz trip over the CNY hols. Had an awesome stay in Pan Pacific Manila with the company of positive, polite, superb nice Filipinos. Met up with Ariel & Ambec Driz, amazing couple! Squeeze sum time to go to the launcing of Time Defiance in Intercontinental Hotel! It was Phenomenal! Thanks Ariel & Ambec for all the help to expand our biz in Manila. Cya soon in Singapore!
View from Pan Pacific Manila, overlooking Roxas Boulevard
At Star City Amusement Park
Unicorn Scupture at Star City
Going for the launcing of Time Defiance @ Intercontinental Manila
With <> Ali Ghanaddan
With <> Ambec
At Singing Waiter Restaurant, this guy teasing Sir Chin.. rabak seyy, we laugh till our jaws were tired
Maryknoll, Val, Cat and myself
We had a great time and we'll definitely come back!!
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
Extract frm a fren's blog :-
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common wuestion. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noteiced that there was a large man sitting next to her, so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know:?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch and liked their idiosyncraies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "fallin" in love. Because it's happening to YOU..
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened to YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all) and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?: And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.
People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV or abusive substanecs.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not sying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years late. because THE KEY TO SUCCEEDIN IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING LOVE.
You have to "make" it happen. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love", because it take time, effort and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISOM.
You have to know what to do to make your marriage work. make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (suc as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make you marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you kow and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. Not just a feeling..
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
No special occasion.. Juz catching up.. Juz feel like getting together with Ifa & Shalyzz.. Too much distraction in our lifes that we have forgotten to appreciate the finer side of our lives. used to do this mthly..with Ala and Lynn.. But mak buyong and checher not free, so, dat explains the three of us, juz..
An hour after the laughing and being clowns and enjoying the shiokness of Haagen Daaz eskrim, this is wat you get..
Oh, did i mentioned that Shalyzz brought along all our old fotos.. we were laughing like mad women... Our graduation party and D & D, Shalyzz was wearing this black dress with high slits and sooo ugly shoes... And she still wants to defend herself saying that it was the IN shoe, then.. phleaaaseeee... OK, shalyzz, please please do not forget to scan those fotos and email us.. If we dun receive it by end of the week, nanti kita gertak, satu Kembangan!!
Ifa, the camp fotos, shows how scrawny you were...ADMIT it..!! muakahkahkah!!
And as for me, they were laughing at my flat hairdo.. ok per, dulu, mana bule style style rambot..nanti kena potong sey ngan dollah...
Neway, thanks babe for the wonderful time... Next time, mak buyong & checher must must must come along..aite..
Sunday, October 15, 2006
Had iftar with the qualified 600pv IBOs @ BREEKS
It's totally on the house by new FPDD, Eddie & Lindah. We had a great time, especially since it has been a long time since we had a meal together and had fun.
Eddie shared with us his experiences while working at Night Safari when New Sapphire Direct Azman mentioned about the death of Steve Irwin. It was relly unfortunate that the most expensice meal was unavailable. I was relly craving for steak, medium done and Breeks have only one Steak dish (Sirloin with mushroom sauce) and it's unavailable... Peh bingit.. Sebbaik takde ar...kalau ada, kayap ar korang, cos six of us wanted those juicy sirloin steaks.. But then again, what is a few bucks, considered to xxxxxxxxx thousand dollars you guys juz got, frm the biz, rite..??
Neway, thank you soo, soo much.. Semoga lebih murah lagi rezeki kamu berdua and jgn lupa belanja kami lagi, ye.. This time, juz the four of us...at, let say, Straits Kitchen?? *wink wink, hint hink*
Was extremely proud that Hafiz qualify this time round.. Mebbe the carrot works for him, this time round.. Next time (which is next month), make sure you qualify again, aite? When you CHOOSE to DECIDE to do it, YOU CAN DO IT!!
k, my eyes are half opened, while waiting for DH to return from meeting his CCK buddy.. *dorang nih, kalau dah jumpa, tak ingat balik*
Friday, October 13, 2006
Gez whose cake is this for??
It's my Director's 70th Birthday!!
We gave him a jiggy wif our company's top vessels, all framed up..
Wondering why the huge ship cake? Signifies the prosperity of the company...:) haha..like real.. Haizz makin bnyk la keje aku.. but, Alhamdulillah, i still got a job..
ehem ehm, Mr Rxxx, bonus dis yr, how many mths, eh?